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I've met guys in bars, at parties, while snowboarding, through friends, and online via Ok Cupid, Match, Tinder, Hinge, Happn, Bumble, The League, How About We, Coffee Meets Bagel, and even Nerve.com, a site for “literary smut” that hosted online personals in that early-aughts dark age before smartphones.
Now imagine that feeling multiplied times a tsunami and you’ll know what washed over me when called up to see if I would travel around the country going on dates to find out if location really matters when you’re looking for love.
Dating, like life, is an awkward, fascinating, sometimes awful, and totally unpredictable journey.
Yes, I officially hit 100 first dates, and wow, did I have some eye-opening and jaw-dropping experiences.
Like the guy who instructed me how to eat my food during our entire dinner, "You can't put sauce on that!
" (I did, and I enjoyed it.) And then there was the guy who went into unnecessary details about all the different types of women he dated—both "hot model" types and "chubby" ones, apparently.
I no longer waste time stressing about things I can't control.
Instead, I take charge of what I can, like what to wear on a first date. Find a comfortable, sexy outfit and wear it over and over again.