Dating an old friend
Actively dating other women is going to help you in a few ways.
First, it’s going to get the girl to see you in that dating/boyfriend role.
She’s got to get used to this new way of seeing you.
If you try the tips above and she doesn’t go for the date or doesn’t want to be kissed, just take it in stride.
If she doesn’t pull back and continues looking at your eyes or your lips, she’s ready for you to kiss her. Invite her out – just the two of you – for drinks, dancing, a trip to the zoo…
Be direct Guys who want to learn how to start dating a friend often want to know how to ask the girl out without making it seem like a date. whatever (for more on what to do on the first date, read this). Doing so shows you’re a confident man who goes after what he wants, which is going to make you that much more attractive.
Don’t settle If all you want is to date this girl then don’t settle for being just friends.
As the tension builds turn towards her and make eye contact.
If she holds that eye contact, slowly lean in for the kiss, stopping when you’re a few inches away.
By not being so dependent on whether or not that friend wants to date you, you’re going to avoid “needy” behaviors and naturally come across as confident and attractive.
Finally, it lets her see that this window may close.